It's Monday, so I am joining Amanda at the habit of being for her weekending series.
This weekend was bittersweet. I suppose if you think about it a bit many weekends and days are, but the usual seemed exacerbated by 9/11 memories and pain.
There were many prayers and thoughts for those who suffered on that day and are still suffering
We were lucky to be able to go apple and pear picking. The brilliant sky reminded me of the brilliant sky of that day. I thought about the luck and absurdity of it all. I am able to stand with my family and do things like pick apples while others have lost family members and friends to the events of that day and still others lose loved ones in wars. Then I thought of many other ways we suffer as human beings through poverty, disease, hate and pure luck or bad luck of the draw. I wondered why at least, if some folks can't be nice (in the simplest of terms) then why can't they just leave others alone.
Then I thought of my friends, family, you and all of the good and joy that remains in the world, even throughout and despite the suffering. I think I will chose to take joy.
Our weekend was full
The birthday parties have started
Soccer for Doran has started, tennis, choir and ballet start later this week. I am taking things a moment and breath at a time while I negotiate this busy season (most of which ends around Halloween). I am attempting not to fight the busy but keep a watchful eye on the moment
Sunday remained unplugged but we are spent a little more time apart than I would like (there was a birthday party in the middle of the day as well as soccer). So there are thoughts of keeping the calmness our day as intact as possible while trying to respect and allow room for the children to be a part of things. I could go into a spiral of why do things have to be held on Sundays and weekends, but it won't help anything really, so I just think of how to be, adjust, yet stay true and do what's best for the family (which of course always seems to change ;-)
There are plans for applesauce, apple/pear sauce, apple jelly
The kiddos found all kinds of bird feathers in the orchard along with a hidden bird nest. The air was thick with the scent of warm, fermenting apples -kind of like hard apple cider. We wondered how many animals were stumbling around the orchard
There were thoughts of next year's garden and this fall's garden
We tried out our new bike rack. After hours of searching, installation, guess what the kids wanted to take on their bike ride-scooters. Um okay
I made more plans for canning tomatoes. They keep coming-thankfully
I watched two extraordinary stories- Carmen and Geoffrey . What an extraordinary couple, what extraordinary individuals. I had the privilege of hearing Geoffrey Holder speak about his "primitive art collectiom"; he is also an artist (in many different ways). He was fascinating and carried himself with such dignity and grace. I wish I had a tenth of it
I also watched Waste Land. Again, another incredible artist, doing amazing things for other people. Both movies reminded me why it is so important to keep trying and never lose sight of what is important to you
I received some awesome news that had me squealing and running around in circle like a three year-old. Two of my art pieces were juried into a local art exhibit so I am super stoked! Yay! Squeeee!!!
How was your weekend?